It's time for you to Close the Deal. You do not want to linger in this “zone” for too long. Just like in any other show, you should leave them wanting more. It is highly important to control and dominate the interaction, you need to end it in a encouraging note. So that you can pick it up later tonight.

Otherwise, the longer you drag out the interaction, the greater the chance that she will feel she needs to get back to hustling and making money. Even if she is totally into the conversation, she can only talk to you for so long before she’ll start to feel that she needs to get back to work. (The managers are not keen on girls sitting with guys and chatting for a half-hour, with no dances being sold.)

Basically, there are two ways to “close” a dancer while she’s on duty: Get her phone number, and plan on calling her/texting her soon to see her outside of the club. Hopefully tonight. (Be sure to find out during the conversation when her shift ends.) If her shift ends within the next few hours, make a plan to meet her at another location. (I suggest you make it a late-night restaurant strippers are usually hungry after working a long shift.) It is very important to make her agree to be with you. Lay out a specific plan that is easy for her to agree with.

In cities, restaurants like Denny’s, I-Hop, etc are good locations for the meet. Even better are local pub-restaurants where you can grab a burger and some drinks afterwards. The place and location should be familiar on her part. If she has no idea where it is, she is very unlikely to try to drive around and find it in the middle of the night. You may have no intention of heading to this place later tonight, if you’re alone, but you’ve got to present it this way to her as if your plans for later on are already set. She’s welcome to come along so you can continue this cool conversation. 

It is important not to make a date plan if you are conversing in a club.. It is hopeless. If you try to suggest this, she will probably agree to it, out of politeness, but she will forget all about it as soon as you leave. Besides, she will probably be working that night.

The only thing you should consider is sleeping with her tonight. Strippers usually lead busy, hectic (if not chaotic) lives and meet new guys every day. Trying to build a “friendship first” and taking it slow is the downfall of many guys when they’re trying to hook up with women and this is especially true when you are dealing with strippers. Close the deal when there is a possibility.