Right now I want to share with you a few quick guidelines on how to approach women and get phone numbers. More specifically, these tips are about how to approach women and get numbers in the daytime -- since every day you've got golden opportunities to meet ladies that you doubtless aren't taking advantage of.

Just think about the last time you saw a beautiful girl while you were out running errands...and you would have really liked to talk to her and get her info, but you just weren't sure how to break the ice and make it happen? 

See, most guys fail to go for it because they're worried about what they're going to talk about with her. Perhaps this guy feels semi-comfortable with the idea of talking to girls in bars, but when it comes to knowing how to approach women in the daytime, he doesn't have the nerve, or the skills, to walk up to her and make it happen.

The reality is that when it comes to approaching a woman during the daytime...whether it's on a street corner, or at the beach...the typical guy freezes up because he's concerned that if he approaches, the girl will feel uncomfortable and blow him off.

I've got the solution to this problem. First, you've got to stop worring about having long, drawn-out conversations with girls you've just met. For right now, the only thing you need to focus on is obtaining her phone number, name and email address). Then you're going to END the conversation and contact her soon to get to know her better. 

 You can learn how to get a girls phone number in less than 5 minutes. And if you use this approach, you'll actually collect MORE phone numbers than you'd get by trying to talk to every girl you meet for twenty minutes and dragging out the conversation. 

See, the longer you try to talk to a girl you just met, the greater the likelihood that she'll "disqualify" you for saying something dumb, or saying or doing something that she just doesn't find attractive.

First, always carry a small pad of paper and a pen with you. ALWAYS. There are various reasons for doing this, and one of them is to collect digits from girls. Instead of taking the time to type her info into your phone, it's smoother to hand her the paper and pen and have her write down her info for you. 

Here's how you do it. You simply notice a detail about her appearance, or something she is doing at the moment. Maybe she's wearing an interesting piece of jewelry, or a nice dress or designer pair of jeans. She could be carrying a cool-looking cell phone.

Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to buy something similar for a friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. "Hey, I couldn't help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to pick out a gift, I think she'd love something like that...where did you get it?"

Be creative with the "details" that you notice. If she's shopping at the supermarket, you can spot something she's got in her cart and say, "Pardon me, I need to bring a dessert to a dinner party I'm going to tonight, and I'm wondering if you have a suggestion on something that's easy to make, but delicious."

Let's look at another example. If you'd like to know how to approach a woman at a bookstore (and acquire her number), use the same principle: "Hey, is that book you're reading any good? I'm trying to choose a birthday gift for a friend -- she's a girl the same age as you -- and I'm wondering if you've read anything really good lately?"

You let her give her answer, talk to her about it for a few minutes, and then you say, "Well it was nice meeting you, I'm going to take your recommendation. Hey, do you have email? I'll let you know if my gift is a hit."

In my experience, 95% of the time the girl will say "yes" and now you're going to get her info. (Notice, you didn't ask her if you can HAVE her email address. You asked "if she has email." And every girl does, of course. The trick is, you act like she is now offering to give it you...and naturally, she will.) 

So now you casually take out your pen and notepad and hand them to her. Act like this is a completely normal next step.

Then, as she writes down her email address, you say "jot down your number also. And I didn't catch your name..."

If you act like this is completely natural and normal, she'll treat it as such.

It's when you ask women PERMISSION things that you might encounter some resistance. So, never ask permission when you want to get a girls number -- or for that matter, when you ask a woman for anything at all. You should always prompt girls to go along with your flow. You can simply assume that she wants to give you her info, and she most likely will give it you. 

Now that you've got her info, you can contact her again. In regards to how and when you're going to contact her -- and the best way to set up the "next meet" -- I've got some powerful methods for that, too.

Learning how to approach women and get phone numbers is just one of the hundreds of skills you'll want to know. And as for how you're going to arrange this "next meet" with her, I have some incredibly strong tactics to ensure a successful outcome...